The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.
-Proverbs 18:21 When I was a child, I remember hearing the phrase, "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." This phrase implies that sticks and stones may cause harm, but cruel words won't have any effect on the one who is being told these words. In reality, words can build someone up or tear them down. They can make one smile. They can make one angry. Instead of letting "unwholesome talk come out of your mouth[s]," speak words that would be "helpful for building others up according to their needs," as Ephesians 4:29 points out. Choose to speak words that would, as Ephesian 4:29 says, "benefit those who listen." Sometimes, when we are really emotional, we tend to say things that we may regret later on. We may lash out at someone when we are really angry. Sometimes, we tend to speak before even thinking. When we do that, the words that come out of our mouths may not be beneficial or helpful to those listening. When we speak what is true, what is just, what is right, our words leave a positive influence on not only the person hearing them, but on the person speaking them. When you speak, speak life into the lives of those listening to you. Use your words to inspire. Use your words to encourage. Use your words to break down walls, not build up barriers. Speak positivity over yourself and others. Speak love. Speak hope. The great thing about speaking kind words is that it is not a difficult task. It doesn't require much time or effort. Speaking kind words won't cost you, but unkind words can. Before you speak, think. Thoughts have a huge influence on what comes out of our mouths. As Mahatma Gandhi puts it, "Keep your thoughts positive, because your thoughts become your words."
1 Comment
|
AuthorHello there! Welcome to my blog! My name's Johanna. I am a Jesus-loving twenty-year-old who also loves to make people laugh, spend time with family, explore the outdoors, and take photos. I hope my blog inspires and encourages you to draw more closer to God and enjoy life more. Remember that you were created for a purpose. You are wonderful. Archives
June 2017
Categories |